Cancer and Metastasis – God Sees and Cares

Where is God when cancer returns?

This is really a two-part piece: a general devotional on God and suffering, followed by an update on our ongoing personal cancer story. Some of you are aware of our journey over the past year, and a new development has changed things a bit. But bringing God into the picture at the outset seems like a wise way to begin.

There is much that can be said about God and the problem of suffering and evil. It is one of the biggest and most important topics we can think about and discuss. But it is never meant to be a theoretical matter only, since everyone does suffer in various ways, and real and practical answers are what we really need.

Given what I will share in a moment about our own story, what I read again in my morning Scripture reading was really quite relevant and helpful. I am back in the book of Exodus. You know the story: after Joseph gained favour with Pharaoh and he and his family were blessed while living there, things started to change.

Things went downhill over the years when a new king came along who did not know Joseph. The numerous Israelites were deemed to be a threat, and so they were forced into slave labour. The book of Exodus discusses this story, and tells of how God raised up a deliverer in the person of Moses. Early on we read these two passages:

Ex. 2:23-25 During those many days the king of Egypt died, and the people of Israel groaned because of their slavery and cried out for help. Their cry for rescue from slavery came up to God. And God heard their groaning, and God remembered his covenant with Abraham, with Isaac, and with Jacob. God saw the people of Israel—and God knew.

Ex. 3:7-9 Then the Lord said, “I have surely seen the affliction of my people who are in Egypt and have heard their cry because of their taskmasters. I know their sufferings, and I have come down to deliver them out of the hand of the Egyptians and to bring them up out of that land to a good and broad land, a land flowing with milk and honey, to the place of the Canaanites, the Hittites, the Amorites, the Perizzites, the Hivites, and the Jebusites. And now, behold, the cry of the people of Israel has come to me, and I have also seen the oppression with which the Egyptians oppress them.

Notice how God is NOT aloof, distant, unaware nor uncaring. He sees and knows all about the suffering of his people. And he not just notices, but he acts. We find this same message throughout the Bible. God knows about our suffering, he cares about our suffering, and he takes action in regard to our suffering.

And this is the most personal and intimate care we can possibly get, because God knows all about suffering. He suffered for us so that the sin issue can be dealt with. He entered into our world and suffered on our behalf. In Isaiah we read about Jesus being referred to as the Suffering Servant (see Is. 52:13-53:12).

So what we find in the opening chapters of Exodus is good news indeed. It was not only good news for the suffering Israelites, but it is terrific news for those who are suffering today. And it is comforting news for my wife and myself on our ongoing cancer journey.

Our cancer journey

Let me share with you the latest on my wife’s cancer story. Many of you have been following it and praying for us. Things have just changed a bit, so to keep you up to date, let me discuss it here. It began on March 4 of last year when we learned that Averil had an aggressive stage three breast cancer.

That changed everything of course. Radical treatment was immediately started, including chemo, radiation and surgery (double mastectomy). She is still doing chemo tablets and immunotherapy infusions for a few more months. Because things seemed to be going along OK, we thought maybe we were getting close to the end.

As many will know, the treatment for cancer can be as difficult as the cancer itself. So Averil has had her ups and downs, but seemed to be doing alright. When we first learned of her health news last year, I began a daily diary of what was happening.

But since things seemed to be moving along alright, I penned my last entry on November 23rd. But now I have had to restart this cancer diary. As I mentioned on the social media last night: “If you do not know what the word metastasis means, you should be thankful.”

I must confess that I did not really know what it meant either. But now I do. My wife had been having a quite sore arm for the past few weeks. An ultrasound was done Friday, and yesterday we heard from the oncologist. It seems she has some cancer in her arm. So now more tests will be needed, to see if there is more cancer elsewhere.

So the original cancer has spread, and the journey continues. Obviously so many others are going through the very same sort of thing, so our story in not unique. However, anyone in this situation knows what a tough journey it can be, and most folks appreciate prayer – we sure do.

We will keep people posted as we learn the next steps. But perhaps I can share just a few bits of our journey – a few things that might encourage others. One thing happened early on last year. We were told of this new immunotherapy that was available in Australia that seemed to work well in the US.

But for most folks it is not yet subsidised, and it is very expensive. We were told we would need to come up with $60,000 for it! That was for the first ten doses done every three weeks. (That works out to $6,000 a pop for a small bag of liquid!) Doses afterwards would not have to be paid for however.

Like most folks we are not exactly rolling in the dough, so this was a big financial ask. But a good friend set up a Christian funding thingee, and within two weeks that amount was raised, either with the crowd funding thing, or by folks putting funds into our bank account. God is good, and so are his people.

But with ongoing medical expenses, that website is still up. Those interested – even just to read the latest updates – can find it here: https://givesendgo.com/HelpBillMuhlenbergHelpHisWife

Another little encouraging thing: My wife and a friend would often go to a nearby cafe for coffees. But with her cancer, her friend would instead bring her takeaway coffee. A while ago when the cafe folks learned of this they gave her a lunch gift card. Very kind of them. We finally used it on Monday, sitting outside. Not many businesses will do stuff like that. But with our new news on Wednesday, I thought that it is a good thing we used it when we did!

One final thing: on Tuesday night I had a real rough night. Now, I always have trouble sleeping – I have had this problem all my life. But on Tuesday night it was really tough, and I kept praying simply, ‘Help me God.’ It was a sort of general plea for help – not just to be able to fall asleep.

The very next day we learned of the metastasis. And this morning, as mentioned, I read those verses in Exodus which speak of God hearing the Israelites’ cries for help. So I believe God heard my cry for help on the previous night. He hears and he cares. He also acts, but of course how he acts may not always be the way we think he should act.

So we are again in a position of needing to really trust God and not allow despair or unbelief to creep in, despite all the trying circumstances. And of interest another Christian couple we know who are quite active in the Lord’s work is going through the same thing. She had cancer, was treated, and seemed to beat it, but a month or so ago she learned that the cancer is back. So they have been talking to each other on the phone of late.

Last night my wife said we need to get the couple over. Yep, we do. During times like this you want to be with others, including those who are going through similar sorts of things. We need each other in other words. And above all, we need a God who hears, who sees, who cares, and who acts.

And we need to keep in mind the words of Charles Spurgeon, the Baptist preacher who went through so much suffering in his own life:

“God is too good to be unkind and He is too wise to be mistaken. And when we cannot trace His hand, we must trust His heart. When you are so weak that you cannot do much more than cry, you coin diamonds with both your eyes. The sweetest prayers God ever hears are the groans and sighs of those who have no hope in anything but his love.”

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16 Replies to “Cancer and Metastasis – God Sees and Cares”

  1. May God be with Averil, yourself and family as you all go through this very difficult situation.

    Whatever the future holds, we know for certain one day:

    “God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away”. Revelation 21:4 (KJV)

  2. Some more encouragement, I hope, from my recent readings in Genesis:
    a) under God’s covenant with Abram (Gen 15:16), a lot of time would have to pass: “In the fourth generation your descendants will come back here, for the sin of the Amorites has not yet reached its full measure.”
    Then in Exodus, Moses led the people out, but they didn’t actually complete the journey for 40 years. However, it eventually happened because God keeps His promises.

  3. Praying for you and Averil, I know this journey of metastasis as I had bowel cancer that metastasised to my liver. I always said cancer is such an emotional journey not just physical. My friend said to me once I had the all clear after many operations, chemo, radiotherapy, diet change and a lot of prayer … you hung on to Jesus’s hem the whole way through …. And I loved those words because that is exactly what I did. God bless you both and I’m praying fervently.

  4. Hi Bill, I just read your article about your wife Averil’s journey with having the cancer.
    I have had cancer twice before & so I can relate to all that you are going through.
    Some things that I have discovered to stay cancer free since are that there are antiangionetic foods which turn off the cancer switch.
    https://caloriebee.com/diets/Anti-angiogenic-Foods-What-They-Are-and-Why-Theyre-Crucial-to-Include-in-Your-Diet
    Also there is a web site called Chris beat cancer that is very helpful!
    But above all Jesus is King & there is healing in the name of Jesus.

    (Psa 107:20)  He sent his word, and healed them, and delivered them from their destructions.

    (Mat 10:7)  And as ye go, preach, saying, The kingdom of heaven is at hand.
    (Mat 10:8)  Heal the sick, cleanse the lepers, raise the dead, cast out devils: freely ye have received, freely give.

    (Luk 4:18)  The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because he hath anointed me to preach the gospel to the poor; he hath sent me to heal the brokenhearted, to preach deliverance to the captives, and recovering of sight to the blind, to set at liberty them that are bruised,
    (Luk 4:19)  To preach the acceptable year of the Lord.

    God bless you both

  5. Dear Bill,
    Praying for and your wife.
    For faith in the one true and living God and fortitude.

  6. Thanks Bill for update as I was wondering what was happening with your wife. My husband takes a few drops of selenium every day in his cup of tea as it is a good cancer preventative. It is depleted in most Australian soils but make sure it is not in other things she is taking as it can be poisonous to body if too much consumed. Also trying to be a health person myself I don’t use any deodorants with aluminium in them as the underarms are near the breasts and keep away from poisonous hair dyes that can accumulate. My Aunty got cancer I believe from breathing in hair spray all day as she worked in a hairdressing place – my opinion but please check things as some people get things that dont affect like others.

  7. Hi Bill,
    I am sorry to hear of the cancer journey that your wife and you are going through.

    If you are wanting some alternate/natural medical support, I would strongly recommend Christina Mathewson, a christian naturopath, she has helped me a lot with adrenal/chronic fatigue, but also works with cancer patients.

  8. Metastasis is unfortunately a word I know. My grandparents had cancer in 1999-2000, sadly passed but were in their eighties, and I looked up a lot then. I will say the will to live is very important. Cancer spreads A LOT faster when you’ve given up than when you’re fighting. I seen this firsthand. I have had medical classes since then and have learned more and the location is very important too. Praying for both of you and that it stays in non-vital locations!

  9. Thanks for this article, Bill. I admire your and Mrs Muehlenberg’s courage and bravery, and willingness to share your story. As Jesus said, the little sparrow cannot fall without our Father’s consent. Sometimes, the righteous are taken away to be spared from evil (Is. 57:1). Hopefully, one’s departure will be as Job said, like a sheaf gathered in season. “Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his saints” (Ps. 116:15) As the wise woman of Tekoa told King David, we needs must die, like water poured out on the ground, which cannot be recovered (2 Sam. 14:14). Sorry, I didn’t mean to be morbid or depressing, but you will write these articles…! There’s a lot of cancer in Tasmania, I think, because of the orchard sprays — thousands upon thousands of gallons of lead arsenate pumped out all over the place, until it was banned in the 1980s. But cancer shows that all evil is self-defeating in the end, because if cancer kills a person, the cancer must die too.

  10. Praying for both of you, Bill. And I want to encourage you too because I’m very confident that very many – most? – of your readers will likewise be praying for you even if they don’t write to tell you so. You’re certainly not doing this journey alone.

  11. Dear Bill,

    Prayers for Averil and you during this journey. And, thank you for thinking about all of your friends and faithful Culture Watch readers who might also be on a similar journey.
    God bless you guys.
    Ron Adams

  12. Blessings Bill and Averil,
    I’m reading Power in Praise, Merlin Carothers… awesome testimonies of how when we praise, trust and look up, God has a free hand to do a miracle… so my prescription..worship, praise, lift up your eyes to the hills from whence cometh your help. Also Dodi Osteen has an awesome testimony. Jesus is a name above any other (C) name.

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